Showing posts with label Parable. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Parable. Show all posts

Sunday, May 4, 2014

The Nut Brown Maid -- British Ballad: a story of woman's unconditional love: "If I have here been partner with you of joy and bliss, I must also part of your woe."

Man: Be it right or wrong, these men among   
On women do complain; 
Affirming this, how that it is   
A labour spent in vain 
To love them well; for never a dele         
They love a man again: 
For let a man do what he can   
Their favour to attain,
Yet if a new to them pursue,   
Their first true lover than  
Labors for naught; for from her thought   
He is a banished man.  

Woman: I say not nay, but that all day   
It is both written and said 
That woman's faith is, as who said,  
All utterly decayed: 
But nevertheless, right good witness   
In this case might be laid 
That they love true and continue:   
Record the Nut-brown Maid,  
Which, when her love came her to prove,   
To her to make his moan, 
Would not depart; for in her heart   
She loved but him alone.  

Man: Then between us let us discuss  
What was all the manner
Between them two: we will also   
Tell all the pain and fear
That she was in. Now I begin,   
So that ye me answer:  
Wherefore all you that present be,  
I pray you, give an ear.
I am the Knight. I come by night,   
As secret as I can, 
Saying, Alas! thus stands the case, 
I am a banished man.  

Woman: And I your will for to fulfill
In this will not refuse; 
Trusting to show, in words few,
That men have an ill use— 
To their own shame—women to blame,   
And causeless them accuse. 
Therefore to you I answer now,  
All women to excuse— 
Mine own heart dear, with you what cheer? 
I pray you, tell anyone; 
For, in my mind, of all mankind  
I love but you alone.  

Man: It stands so: a deed is do   
Whereof great harm shall grow: 
My destiny is for to die   
A shameful death, I trow; 
Or else to flee. The one must be.   
None other way I know 
But to withdraw as an outlaw, 
And take me to my bow. 
Wherefore adieu, mine own heart true!   
None other rede I can: 
For I must to the green-wood go,
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: O Lord, what is this world is bliss,   
That changes as the moon! 
My summer's day in lusty May   
Is darkened before the noon. 
I hear you say, farewell: Nay, nay, 
We depart not so soon. 
Why say you so? Where will you go?   
Alas! what have you done? 
All my welfare to sorrow and care   
Should change, if you were gone: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone.  

Man: I can believe it shall you grieve,  
And somewhat you distrain; 
But afterward, your pain's hard 
Within a day or two
Shall soon aslake; and you shall take   
Comfort to you again. 
Why should ye ought? for, to make thought,   
Your labour were in vain.  
And thus I do; and pray you to,   
As heartily as I can: 
For I must to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: Now, if that you have showed to me 
The secret of your mind, I shall be plain to you again,  
Like as you shall me find. 
If it is so that you will go,   
I will not live behind.  
Shall never be said the Nut-brown Maid   
Was to her love unkind. 
Make you ready, for so am I,   
Although it were anyone: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind  
I love but you alone.  

Man: Yet I you ready to take good heed   
What men will think and say: 
Of young, of old, it shall be told   
That you be gone away 
Your wanton will for to fulfill,   
In green-wood you to play; 
And that ye might for your delight   
No longer make delay 
Rather than ye should thus for me
Be called an ill woman 
Yet would I to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: Though it be sung of old and young   
That I should be to blame, 
Theirs be the charge that speak so large  
In hurting of my name: 
For I will prove that faithful love   
It is devoid of shame; 
In your distress and heaviness 
To part with you the same: 
And sure all tho that do not so
True lovers are they none: 
For in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone. 

Man: I counsel you, 
Remember how   
It is no maiden's law 
Nothing to doubt, but to run out   
To wood with an outlaw. 
For you must there in your hand bear 
A bow ready to draw; 
And as a thief thus must you live   
Ever in dread and awe; 
Whereby to you great harm might grow:   
Yet had I liever than 
That I had to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: I think it is not but as you say;   
It is no maiden's lore; 
But love may make me for your sake, 
As I have said before, 
To come on foot, to hunt and shoot,   
To get us meat and store; 
For so that I your company   
May have, I ask no more. 
From which to part it makes my heart   
As cold as any stone; 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone.  

Woman: For an outlaw this is the law, 
That men him take and bind: 
Without pity, hanged to be,   
And waver with the wind. 
If I had need (as God forbade!)   
What socours could you find? 
Forsooth I trow, you and your bow   
For fear would draw behind. 
And no mervail; for little avail   
Were in your counsel than: 
Wherefore I'll to the green-wood go, 
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: Right well know you that women be   
But feeble for to fight; 
No woman had it is, indeed,   
To be bold as a knight: 
Yet in such fear if that you were   
With enemies day and night,
 I would withstand, with bow in hand,   
To grieve them as I might, 
And you to save; as women have
From death men many one: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone.  

Man: Yet take good heed; for ever I dread
That ye could not sustain 
The thorny ways, the deep valleys,   
The snow, the frost, the rain, 
The cold, the heat; for dry or wet,   
We must lodge on the plain; 
And, us above, no other roof 
But a brake bush or two: 
Which soon should grieve you, I believe;   
And you would gladly than 
That I had to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man. 

Woman: If I have here been partner
With you of joy and bliss, I must also part of your woe   
Endure, as reason is: 
Yet I am sure of one pleasure,  
And shortly it is this— 
That where you be, me seem, pardon,   
I could not fare amiss. 
Without more speech I you beseech   
That we were shortly gone; 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone. 

Man: If you go thither, you must consider,   
When ye have lust to dine, 
There shall no meat be for to get, 
Neither beer, ale, no wine, 
No sheets clean, to lie between,   
Made of thread and twine; 
None other house, but leaves and boughs,   
To cover your head and mine. 
Lo, mine heart sweet, this ill diet
Should make you pale and wan: 
Wherefore I'll to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: Among the wild deer such an archer, 
As men say that you be, 
No may not fail of good vitals
Where is so great plenty: 
And water clear of the river
Shall be full sweet to me; 
With which in hele I shall right wele   
Endure, as you shall see; 
And, or we go, a bed or two   
I can provide anyone; 
For, in my mind, of all mankind 
I love but you alone.  


Man: Lo yet, before, you must do more,   
If you will go with me: As, cut your hair up by your ear,   
Your kirtle by the knee; 
With bow in hand for to withstand   
Your enemies, if need be: 
And this same night, before daylight,   
To woodward will I flee. 
If that you will all this fulfill, 
Do it shortly as you can: 
Else will I to the green-wood go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: I shall as now do more for you   
Than 'longeth to womanhood
To short my hair, a bow to bear,   
To shoot in time of need. 
O my sweet mother! before all other   
For you I have most dread! 
But now, adieu! I must ensue 
Where fortune does me lead. 
All this make you: Now let us flee;   
The day cometh fast upon: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone. 

Man: Nay, nay, not so; you shall not go,   
And I shall tell you why— 
Your appetite is to be light   
Of love, I well espy: 
For, right as you have said to me, 
In likewise hardily 
You would answer whosoever it were,   
In way of company: It is said of old, 
Soon hot, soon cold;   
And so is a woman: 
Wherefore I to the wood will go,   
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: If you take heed, it is no need   
Such words to say to me; 
For often you prayed, and long assayed, 
Or I loved you, pardè: 
And though that I of ancestry   
A baron's daughter be, 
Yet have you proved how I you loved,   
A squire of low degree; 
And ever shall, whatso befall   
To die therefore anon; 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
 love but you alone.  

Man: A baron's child to be beguiled, 
It were a cursed deed! To be fellow with an outlaw—   
Almighty God forbade! 
Yet better were the poor squire   
Alone to forest yede
Than you shall say another day   
That by my cursed ready 
You were betrayed. 
Wherefore, good maid,   
The best ready that I can, 
Is, that I to the green-wood go,
Alone, a banished man.  

Woman: Whatever befall, I never shall   
Of this thing be upbraid: 
But if you go, and leave me so,   
Then have you me betrayed. 
Remember you well, how that you dele;   
For if you, as you said, 
Be so unkind to leave behind  
Your love, the Nut-brown Maid, 
Trust me truly that I shall die  
Soon after you be gone: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone.  

Man: If that you went, you should repent;   
For in the forest now 
I have purveyed me of a maid   
Whom I love more than you: 
Another more fair than ever you were   
I dare it well avow; 
And of you both each should be wroth 
With other, as I trow: It were mine ease to live in peace;  
 So will I, if I can: 
Wherefore I to the wood will go,   
Alone, a banished man. 

Woman: Though in the wood I understood 
You had a paramour, 
All this may naught remove my thought,   
But that I will be yours: 
And she shall find me soft and kind 
And courtesy every hour; 
Glad to fulfill all that she will   
Command me, to my power: 
For had you, lo, one hundred more,   
Yet would I be that one: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind   
I love but you alone.  

Man: Mine own dear love, I see the prove   
That you be kind and true; 
Of maid, of wife, in all my life, 
The best that ever I knew. 
Be merry and glad; be no more sad;   
The case is changed now; 
For it were ruth that for your truth   
You should have cause to rue. 
Be not dismayed, whatsoever I said   
To you when I began: 
I will not to the green-wood go;   
I am no banished man.  

Woman: These tidings be more glad to me 
Than to be made a queen, 
If I were sure they should endure;   
But it is often seen 
When men will break promise they speak   
The word is on the spleen. 
You shape some wile me to beguile,   
And steal from me, I ween: 
Then were the case worse than it was,   
And I more wo-begone: 
For, in my mind, of all mankind 
I love but you alone.  

Man: You shall not need further to dread:   
I will not disparage You (God defend), if you descend   
Of so great a lineage. 
Now understand: to Westmoreland,   
Which is my heritage, I will you bring; and with a ring,   
By way of marriage I will you take, and lady make, 
As shortly as I can: 
Thus have you won an Earl's son,   
And not a banished man.   

Here may you see that women be   
In love meek, kind, and stable; 
Let never man reprove them than,   
Or call them variable; 
But rather pray God that we may   
To them be comfortable; 
Which sometime proves such as He loves, 
If they be charitable. 
For if men would that women should   
Be meek to them each one; 
Much more ought they to God obey,   
And serve but Him alone. 



Tuesday, April 9, 2013

God and the Spider

 (Author Unknown)
 
During World War II, a US marine was separated from his unit on a Pacific island. The fighting had been intense, and in the smoke and the crossfire he had lost touch with his comrades.
 
Alone in the jungle, he could hear enemy soldiers coming in his direction. Scrambling for cover, he found his way up a high ridge to several small caves in the rock. Quickly he crawled inside one
of the caves. Although safe for the moment, he realized that once the enemy soldiers looking for him swept up the ridge, they would quickly search all the caves and he would be killed.
 
As he waited, he prayed, "Lord, if it be your will, please protect me. Whatever your will though, I love you and trust you. Amen."
 
After praying, he lay quietly listening to the enemy begin to draw close. He thought, "Well, I guess the Lord isn't going to help me out of this one." Then he saw a spider begin to build a web over
the front of his cave.
 
As he watched, listening to the enemy searching for him all the while, the spider layered strand after strand of web across the opening of the cave.
 
"Hah," he thought. "What I need is a brick wall and what the Lord has sent me is a spider web. God does have a sense of humor."
 
As the enemy drew closer he watched from the darkness of his hideout and could see them searching one cave after another. As they came to his, he got ready to make his last stand. To his amazement, however, after glancing in the direction of his cave, they moved on. Suddenly, he realized that with the spider web over the entrance, his cave looked as if no one had entered for quite a while.
 
"Lord, forgive me," prayed the young man. "I had forgotten that in
you a spider's web is stronger than a brick wall."

Friday, January 18, 2013

SLOTH vs DILIGENCE - Day 4

Two Parables & One Prophecy (Matthew 25)


“Then the kingdom of heaven shall be compared to ten maidens who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; 4 but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7 Then all those maidens rose and trimmed their lamps.8 And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ 9 But the wise replied, ‘Perhaps there will not be enough for us and for you; go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ 10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast; and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other maidens came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12 But he replied, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.

14 “For it will be as when a man going on a journey called his servants and entrusted to them his property; 15 to one he gave five talents,to another two, to another one, to each according to his ability. Then he went away. 16 He who had received the five talents went at once and traded with them; and he made five talents more.17 So also, he who had the two talents made two talents more. 18 But he who had received the one talent went and dug in the ground and hid his master’s money.19 Now after a long time the master of those servants came and settled accounts with them. 20 And he who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five talents more, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me five talents; here I have made five talents more.’ 21 His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a little, I will set you over much; enter into the joy of your master.’ 22 And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me two talents; here I have made two talents more.’ 23 His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a little, I will set you over much; enter into the joy of your master.’ 24 He also who had received the one talent came forward, saying, ‘Master, I knew you to be a hard man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not winnow; 25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.’26 But his master answered him, ‘You wicked and slothful servant! You knew that I reap where I have not sowed, and gather where I have not winnowed? 27 Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received what was my own with interest. 28 So take the talent from him, and give it to him who has the ten talents. 29 For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away. 30 And cast the worthless servant into the outer darkness; there men will weep and gnash their teeth.’

31 “When the Son of man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate them one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats,33 and he will place the sheep at his right hand, but the goats at the left. 34 Then the King will say to those at his right hand, ‘Come, O blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; 35 for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, 36 I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ 37 Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see thee hungry and feed thee, or thirsty and give thee drink? 38 And when did we see thee a stranger and welcome thee, or naked and clothe thee?39 And when did we see thee sick or in prison and visit thee?’ 40 And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.’ 41 Then he will say to those at his left hand, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels; 42 for I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’ 44 Then they also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see thee hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to thee?’ 45 Then he will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it not to one of the least of these, you did it not to me.’ 46 And they will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”

Thursday, September 27, 2012

COVETOUSNESS vs GRATITUDE - Day 4

Of Greed and Gratitude

The fable is told of a greedy fox who was gorging himself on an animal he had killed. As he ate, a bone stuck in his throat, and he could not swallow it. The pain was so excruciating that the fox ran around and around seeking relief. He promised he would give anything if someone would remove the bone from his throat. He tried to get all the animals he met to remove the bone, but not one dared. Finally the crane agreed to try. The fox opened his mouth as wide as he could, and the crane stuck its long beak down his throat, loosened the bone, and pulled it out.

The crane asked for the promised reward, but the fox grinned wickedly and replied: “Be content. You have put your head into a fox’s mouth and taken it out again safely. That ought to be reward enough for you.” The moral of the story is, “Gratitude and greed do not go together.”

The fox certainly pictures the person who is continually grasping for things, perhaps making a show of gratitude or thankfulness, then continuing in ungratefulness.

How many young people have you met who were like the fox? They were only too happy to ask for help when they had a desperate need. However, when you helped them they showed little or no gratitude. You felt used and unappreciated.


What Is Greed?

In the Bible, “greed” is often called covetousness. The English word comes from a Latin word meaning cupidity or desire. People want what they want, when they want it, in whatever way they can get it. They will run over other people and disrespect them in their greedy quest for what they want.

Covetousness or greed involves many areas of life. People are greedy for material possessions and money. They may cheat, lie, steal, and even murder to get the things they want. When they get it, they repeat the vicious cycle to get even more. Greed often controls sexual desire. People will do whatever they can to fulfill their desires, even if it means ruining another’s marriage to get it or using another person only to hate and discard that person after they have what they want. The Bible often links greed and immorality together and condemns them. “No whoremonger [immoral person], nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God” (Ephesians 5:5).

What is the Solution to Greed?

We must beware that we be not guilty of greed and ingratitude as was the fox. Greed is sin and rebellion against God and against other people. Fleeing from greed and ingratitude will dramatically improve our relationship with other people and, most of all, with God. Taking God’s way will bring us peace and satisfaction and will give us purpose for living. Greed will be replaced by respect and appreciation for others and thankfulness to God for changing our lives. Greed will be replaced by generosity and gratitude that reach out to help others and please God.

Genuine gratitude and greed cannot exist side by side in one person. Gratitude can come only from a heart and mind that is changed and rooted in the things of God. “Present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God” (Romans 12:1, 2).

May we not join the masses around us who live in greed and selfishness. “Let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankful” (Colossians 3:15).

Monday, July 23, 2012

Too Inconvenient


      I do not know who wrote the following story, but it seemed appropriate as just recently, a woman who I know indirectly, despite offers of adoption, terminated the life of her child simply because pregnancy was inconvenient. 


      A story is told about a soldier who was finally coming home after having fought in Vietnam. He called his parents from San Francisco. “Mom and Dad, I’m coming home, but I’ve a favor to ask. I have a friend I’d like to bring home with me.” 
“Sure,” they replied, “we’d love to meet him.”
“There’s something you should know,” the son continued, “he was hurt pretty badly in the fighting. He stepped on a land mind and lost an arm and a leg. He has nowhere else to go, and I want him to come live with us.” 
“I’m sorry to hear that, son. Maybe we can help him find somewhere to live.” 
“No, Mom and Dad, I want him to live with us.”
“Son,” said the father, “you don’t know what you’re asking. Someone with such a handicap would be a terrible burden on us. We have our own lives to live, and we can’t let something like this interfere with our lives. I think you should just come home and forget about this guy. He’ll find a way to live on his own.” 
At that point, the son hung up the phone. The parents heard nothing more from him. A few days later, however, they received a call from the San Francisco police. Their son had died after falling from a building, they were told. The police believed it was suicide. The grief-stricken parents flew to San Francisco and were taken to the city morgue to identify the body of their son. They recognized him, but to their horror they also discovered something they didn’t know, their son had only one arm and one leg. 
The parents in this story are like many of us. We find it easy to love those who are good-looking, or fun to have around, but we don’t like people who inconvenience us or make us feel uncomfortable. We would rather stay away from people who aren’t as healthy, beautiful, or smart as we are. 

Monday, July 16, 2012

$86,400 Daily Deposit


by Unknown

Imagine there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400. It carries over no balance from day to day. Every evening the bank deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the day. What would you do? Draw out every cent, of course! 

Each of us has such a bank. Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the remains of the day. If you fail to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no going back. There is no drawing against the "tomorrow." You must live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from it the utmost in health, happiness, and success! The clock is running. Make the most of today. 

To realize the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.  To realize the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby. To realize the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper. To realize the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet. To realize the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train. To realize the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident. 

Treasure every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time. Remember that time waits for no one. 

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. 

Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present!

Monday, July 9, 2012

The Obstacle In Our Path


Author Unknown

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. 

Some of the kirig’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. 

Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way. 

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. 

The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many of us never understand. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition. 

Sunday, July 8, 2012

The Builder – A Story of Forgiveness

by sexrespect on 2012/03/12 5:36 PM


The Builder – A Story of Forgiveness
Once upon a time two brothers who lived on adjoining farms fell into conflict. It was the first serious rift in 40 years of farming side by side, sharing machinery, and trading labor and goods as needed without a hitch.

Then the long collaboration fell apart. It began with a small misunderstanding and it grew into a major difference, and finally it exploded into an exchange of bitter words followed by weeks of silence.

One morning there was a knock on John's door. He opened it to find a man with a carpenter's toolbox. "I'm looking for a few days work" he said.

"Perhaps you would have a few small jobs here and there. Could I help you?"

"Yes," said the older brother. "I do have a job for you. Look across the creek at that farm. That's my neighbor, in fact, it's my younger brother. Last week there was a meadow between us and he took his bulldozer to the river levee and now there is a creek between us. Well, he may have done this to spite me, but I'll go him one better. See that pile of lumber curing by the barn? I want you to build me a fence - an 8-foot fence - so I won't need to see his place anymore. Cool him down, anyhow."

The carpenter said, "I think I understand the situation. Show me the nails and the post-hole digger and I'll be able to do a job that pleases you."

The older brother had to go to town for supplies, so he helped the carpenter get the materials ready and then he was off for the day.

The carpenter worked hard all that day measuring, sawing, nailing.

About sunset when the farmer returned, the carpenter had just finished his job. The farmer's eyes opened wide, his jaw dropped.

There was no fence there at all. It was a bridge... a bridge stretching from one side of the creek to the other! A fine piece of work handrails and all - and the neighbor, his younger brother, was coming across, his hand outstretched.

"You are quite a fellow to build this bridge after all I've said and done."

The two brothers stood at each end of the bridge, and then they met in the middle, taking each other's hand. They turned to see the carpenter hoist his toolbox on his shoulder. "No, wait! Stay a few days. I've a lot of other projects for you," said the older brother.

"I'd love to stay on," the carpenter said, "but, I have many more bridges to build."

Author Unknown  

Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Cracked Pot


An elderly woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole, which she carried across her neck. One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been made to do.

After 2 years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the woman one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your
house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side? That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house."

Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding. You've just got to take each person for what they are and look for the good in them.

To all of my crackpot friends, have a great day and remember to smell the flowers.

Monday, February 13, 2012

The Story of the Tea Cup


There was a couple who went to England to shop in a beautiful antique store. They both liked antiques and pottery, and especially tea cups. On a trip to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary, they found an exceptional cup. They asked "May we see that cup? We've never seen a tea cup quite so beautiful."

As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the tea cup spoke, "You don't understand." the cup said, "I have not always been a tea cup. There was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled me, pounded and patted me over and over, and I yelled out, 'Don't do that. I don't like it! Let me alone.' But the potter only smiled, and gently said, "Not yet!!"

Then, WHAM! I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. "Stop it! I'm getting so dizzy! I'm going to be sick!" I screamed. But the master only nodded and said, quietly, "Not yet." He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit himself and then...Then he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled and knocked and pounded at the door. "Help! Get me out of here!" I could see him through the opening and I could read his lips as he shook his head from side to side, "Not yet." When I thought I couldn't bear it another minute, the door opened. He carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool. Oh, that felt so good! Ah, this is much better, I thought. But, after I cooled, he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. I thought I would gag. "Oh, please, Stop it, Stop it!!" I cried. He only shook his head and said. "Not yet!"

Then suddenly he put me back in to the oven. Only it was not like the first one. This was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate. I begged. I pleaded. I screamed. I cried. I was convinced I would never make it. I was ready to give up. Just then the door opened and he took me out and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited... and waited, wondering what he is going to do to me next? An hour later he handed me a mirror and said, "Look at yourself," and I did. I said, "That's not me. That couldn't be me. It's beautiful... I'm beautiful!"

Quietly he spoke: "I want you to remember this," he said, "I know it hurt to be rolled and patted, but had I left you alone, you'd have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped, you would have crumbled. I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn't put you there, you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I hadn't done that, you never would have hardened. You would not have had any color in your life. If I hadn't put you back in that second oven, you wouldn't have survived for long because the hardness would not have held. Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I first began with you."

The moral of this story is this: God knows what He's doing in each of us. He is the potter, and we are his clay. He will mold us and make us, and expose us to just enough pressures of just the right kinds that we may be made into a flawless piece of work to fulfill His good, pleasing and perfect will.

So when life seems hard, and you are being pounded and patted and pushed almost beyond endurance; when your world seems to be spinning out of control; when you feel like you are in a fiery furnace of trials; when life seems to "stink", try this...Brew a cup of your favorite tea in your prettiest tea cup, sit down and think on this story and then... Have a little talk with the Potter.


Story from: http://www.lightyourfire.com/unanswered_prayers.htm

Saturday, November 12, 2011

The Missing Finger

I do not know the origin of this story, but I thought it was a good and simple illustration of the wisdom of  God.  Although, I would like to take the moral of the story a little further-- that this life is not our end. Most of the time evil is allowed for our spiritual good, so that we may have everlasting life. It is better to lose a limb, a friend, possessions, etc.. than to be in the state of sin. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

A king who did not believe in the goodness of God, had a slave who, in all circumstances, said: "My king, do not be discouraged, because everything God does is perfect. No mistakes!"

One day they went hunting and along the way a wild animal attacked the king. His slave managed to kill the animal, but could not prevent his majesty from losing a finger.

Furious and without showing his gratitude for being saved, the nobleman said: "Is God good? If He was good, I would not have been attacked and lost my finger." 

The slave replied: "My king, despite all these things, I can only tell you that God is good, and he knows "why" all things occur. "
  

Outraged by the response, the king ordered the arrest of his slave.

Later, he left alone for another hunt and was captured by savages who made human sacrifices.

In the altar, ready to sacrifice the nobleman, the savages found that the victim was missing one of his fingers, so he was released. They needed a "perfect" sacrifice.

Upon his return to the palace, he authorized the release of his slave.

"God was really good to me! I was almost killed by the wild men, but for lack of a single finger, I was let go! But I have a question: if God is so good, why did he allow me to put you in jail?"

"My King, if I had gone with you in this hunt, I would have been sacrificed for you, because I have no missing finger.  Remember everything God does is perfect." 

Often we complain about life and the negative things that happen to us, forgetting that nothing is random and that everything has a purpose.

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Make A Difference Monday

KLOVE, the radio station that I listen to has "Make a Difference Monday".

It is supposed to encourage people to stretch themselves to do a random act of kindness for someone else. Right now, they are asking 1,000,000 people to do something on the tenth anniversary of 9/11. If their goal is met, than 1,000,000 people will be the recipient of a kind action.  I think this is a great idea.  I pledged to do a kind action. You can too by going here: http://www.klove.com/ministry/make-a-difference.aspx

However, let us also continue to do random acts of kindness before and/or beyond September 11th. We shouldn't wait for tragedies to motivate us, nor should we limit ourselves to only do things on a specific day, such as "Monday".  Acts of random kindness should be a daily, even hourly habit.

If however, you have not trained your mind and hands to volunteer or go out of your way for someone else as a normal part of your routine, the anniversary of 9/11 may be a  good place to start.
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"One morning a man walked along the beach covered with thousands of starfish that had washed up during a storm. Now they lay dying in the sun. He saw a young girl picking up the starfish one by one and tossing them into the sea. He approached her. He couldn't help but ask, "Why bother? There are too many of them. You won't make much difference." She picked up another starfish and tossed it into the water. Then she turned to the man and said, "I made a difference to that one." - Anonymous