Sunday, March 3, 2013

Parable of the Second Chance - Kleinguetl

Edward Kleinguetl      
Third Sunday of Lent (C)

March 3, 2013

Homily

Gospel:  Luke 13:1-9

Our Gospel today contains what is often referred to as the Parable of the Second Chance.1 The fig tree is an appropriate image for our Lenten reflection as we consider our relationship with Jesus Christ.  Probably many of us in our lives can relate to the fig tree which appeared to be lifeless.  We have periods where we feel barren or are thirsting for something greater.  Yet, I can say with absolute certainty that every human heart, no matter how barren, has the capacity for immense love, mercy, and compassion.  How do I know this?  Because all are created in the image of God; each of us has the Divine Image impressed within.  Yes, it is true that sometimes that image is not as brilliant as it should be, perhaps coated with dust and neglect. However, the image is part of who we are. Lent is one of seasons of the Church where we re-examine our relationship with Jesus, to start scrubbing away the decay in order to draw closer to Him, for we are told, whoever remains in Him bears much fruit.2


The second chance is ours to accept.  We can choose to seek Jesus in our lives or not.  However, we can simply look to the crucifix above and know our Father’s desire for us – we can see the depth of His love.  Look up and reflect for a moment on Jesus, in anguish on the cross.  Hear his words:  “
I thirst.”  He thirsts for each of us, just as we are.  When we are weak, when we doubt, or when we feel like we are failing, look upon the cross.  It is a reminder we are never left alone.  When we consider Jesus on the cross, by human standards one could say his life was a defeat, a disappointment, and a failure.  Even most of his disciples scattered in fear and doubt.  Think of Jesus, “reduced to absolute immobility, nailed on the cross.  He was no longer able to encounter people, to cure the sick, to teach…. Yet in the eyes of God, that was the most important moment of his life, because it was then that he poured out his blood for the salvation of humanity.”3


It was through this act of perfect self-giving that we can begin to appreciate the depths of the Father’s love for us.  He gave humanity a second chance after Adam’s rejection in the Garden of Eden; God sent us His Son. It also helps us to understand how we are called to live in own our lives.  We too are asked to completely surrender and trust in God’s plan.  Like the fig tree, we are given the chance to bear fruit.  He will
never give up on us.  The rest is up to us.


Next week in the Gospel, we will hear the Parable of the Prodigal Son; another story of a second chance.  There is no more beautiful image in the Bible, in my opinion, than the Loving Father embracing and unconditionally forgiving his wayward son.  Yet, if we stop with this image in our mind, we will miss one of the most important messages of the parable:  We too are called to be like the Loving Father, to forgive unconditionally, even when it hurts.  Blessed Mother Teresa of Calcutta would tell us: “Love is a one-way street.  It always moves away from self in the direction of the other.  It is through love (even when it hurts) that we encounter God.”4  Thus, without love, we will be like the barren fig tree, exhausting the soil and squandering our gifts.

If you would say to me, this is too hard, I would agree.  I struggle with this each day. Yet, this is the standard to which each of us is called; we have the capacity to love deeply because we have the Divine Image impressed within us.  Alone, of course, it is impossible.  However with God, nothing is impossible.5  That is why during this Lenten season, we strive to deepen our relationship with Jesus, who is the way to the Father.6

What should we do?  How do we deepen our relationship with Jesus?  In our parable today, the gardener cultivated the soil and fertilized it.  We can cultivate the soil of our hearts; we have the three traditional Lenten practices of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving.  Today, let me just concentrate for a moment on prayer because so many people in the world hunger to know Jesus.

Prayer, specifically contemplative prayer, is to listen to voice of Jesus within the silent depths of our hearts; to hear His knocking and to let Him in.7  If you want a close, personal relationship with Jesus, contemplative prayer is the way.  The most ancient form of contemplative prayer is the Jesus Prayer – my personal favorite and Fr. Alfonso’s as well.  Can we make time in our lives during this Lenten season to encounter Jesus in prayer?  

How much time?  This is up to each individual; some of the great mystics will say to start with 15 to 20 minutes per day8 – just be consistent; taking time each day, making it a discipline.

Of course, there are other forms of fertilizer, too, such as reading Scripture, particularly the Gospels, receiving Eucharist, and of course, the Sacrament of Reconciliation, the “forgotten medicine,”9 in which we are truly able to have our burdens lifted and hear the words of Jesus, “You are forgiven!”  

This is how we deepen our relationship with Jesus, to take advantage of the second chance given us.  

Over this remaining Lenten season, let us actively seek to deepen our relationship with Jesus, taking time to encounter Jesus in the depths of our hearts; simply listening to Him in the silence.

As we approach the Holy Table today, before we receive the Precious Body and Life-giving Blood or Our Lord, God, and Savior Jesus Christ, let us each take a moment to look up at the cross and hear those words of Jesus, “I thirst.”  Know that he thirsts for every single one of us; he accepts us just as we are.  Like the fig tree and the Prodigal Son, he offers everyone another chance. Take a moment to offer a brief prayer such as, “
Lord Jesus, you died for love of me.  Help me to die to self for love of you."


Then, as we receive Him in Holy Communion, let us allow Him to give us the grace we need to surrender and draw closer to Him during this Lenten season.  He will give us the grace we need.  All we have to do is ask.  The choice is ours.



1. William Barclay, The Gospel of Luke, taken from The Daily Bible Study series, rev. ed., (Westminster John Knox Press, Louisville, 2001): 208.

2. Cf. John 15:5. 


3. Cardinal Francis Xavier Nguyen Van Thuan, Testimony of Hope: The Spiritual Exercises of John Paul II, transl. Julia Mary Darrenkamp, FSP, and Anne Eileen Hefferman, FSP, (Pauline Books & Media, Boston, 2000): 205.

4. Cf. Mother Teresa, Where There is Love, There is God, Brian Kolodiejchuk, MC, PhD, (Image Books, New York, 2010): 26.

5. Cf. Matt. 19:26 


6. See John 14:6.

7. Cf. Rev. 3:20.

8. St. Theophan the Recluse suggests 15 minutes per day and Fr. Thomas Keating, OCSO suggests 20 minutes a day, twice a day. 

9. See Seraphim Aleksiev, The Forgotten Medicine: The Mystery of Repentance, Transl. by Ralitsa Doynova, St. Xenia Skete Press, Wildwood, California, 1994.

Monday, February 18, 2013

Eight Cow Wife

I thought that this video (though old) is a good illustration how the value put on a person greatly affects the way he/she values his/herself; it shows how to bring out the best or the worst in a person. 

It is possible to change someone's life simply by changing your attitude in how you think about, talk about, and interact with him/her.

"Mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa for all the times, I helped devalue any individual through immaturity, selfishness, pride, anger, and jealousy."   





Ways to devalue someone:
  • Gossip & Slander
  • Mock
  • Ignore
  • Belittle & Accuse
  • Lying to
  • Infidelity 
  • Betrayal
  • Abandon
  • Abort

Ways to value someone:
  • Encourage
  • Fidelity
  • Respond 
  • Listen
  • Support
  • Show up
  • Be Generous 
  • Respect
  • Serve

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Padre Pio says:

"Suffering is necessary for our souls."

"My suffering gives glory to God, saves my brothers in exile, frees the souls 
from Purgatory."

"My sufferings are pleasing." 

'I suffer only when I don't suffer."

"I want to suffer, but in secret."

"I suffer because I cannot win all my brothers to God."

"I suffer everything that Jesus suffered in the Passion."

"In suffering we give something to God, wich we cannot do in Paradise."

"He who begins to love must be ready to suffer."

"Glory will be ours on condition that we endure suffering."

"Suffering is a most powerful lever to raise man up again."

Friday, January 25, 2013

Rule 1: No complicated answers.

So, what do you do when you are asked a question about something that is really important to you, but you have no idea how to answer it?

Well, if you are me, you might bumble around spurting out stupid things, hoping that the other person will grab on to something you can explain... until you realize that you are just shooting yourself in the foot, so then you just shut up.

This happened to me recently.

The question was something to the effect of: "Why pray, when you can spend the same amount of time doing something practical?"

Basically: contemplative nun vs normal person.

In other words, do cloistered nuns have a place in today's society? If one must be a nun, why not be a religious nurse, or teacher, or something that requires physical/visible contributions to society?

Well... I can pull out my Bible, my Catechism, Church Fathers, Lives of the Saints and repeat the traditions of 2,000 years + some. However, this would only be helpful if I were talking to someone who believed in the power of prayer. But when someone doesn't have the same founding premises as I do, what can I say? And how can I prove the benefits of a life dedicated to prayer naturally, from purely a philosophical/natural level? And simply?

This person is a blessing in my life, because he helps me get rid of the fluff. In talking to him there is a rule:

Rule 1: No complicated answers.

Ok. So here is my non-complicated answer... I hope:

       • For a society to excel, the people must be virtuous. (Read Aristotle's Ethics & Politics, Aquinas' On Kingship, De Toqueville's Democracy in America.)

       • Virtuous people (i.e., the happy people) are focused on the greater good. (Aristole, Plato, Scriptures, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King, experience, etc.,.)

       • Virtuous people become closer to perfection by continually striving to be better. These heroes are civil servants, volunteers, who do good things because they are good. "No greater love than giving up a life for a friend." They live to serve.

       • Holy nuns live to serve. Some serve as nurses, etc.,. however, even as contemplatives, they view themselves as raising up humanity. They dedicate their whole life to contributing to the greatest good: valuing every person and helping every individual to heal from his/her own brokeness, or in their language, sinfulness. They do this by offering up prayers and supplications.

      • Now say there is no God; and/or say their prayers don't really do all that they believe. Are their lives a waste?

       No. They offer hope. They offer a place of peace. They are real examples of total self sacrifice, a virtue that even Hollywood tries to capture. Millions of people over centuries and even at this moment flock to places dedicated to prayer and healing, because at some point, all persons seek release from suffering.

        Contemplatives offer real solutions: they live redemptive suffering (using suffering for good) and teach others how to do the same. Thus, they inspire others to be first class citizens, to walk the better, though harder road. They, by their own lives of prayer, learn how to rely not on events or persons to make them happy, but to find happiness in what cannot be taken away. In this, they are grounded and centered. This centeredness is very attractive to "normal" persons, who try to find this in everyday ways, such as in yoga. (Every culture has some form of persons specifically assigned to contemplation.)

         AND even, if they have no contact with "normal" persons, they can be happy with themselves because they are living for a cause and entirely dedicating themselves to it.

        • Now say there is God; and say their prayers really do all that they believe.

         :-) Wouldn't you say they have the most noble life?

          1. They strive to in every moment be focused on the will of God and conform themselves to perfection.  In their seclusion and prayer focused life, they limit the distractions that the more "practical" secular life offers.

         2. They are spending their lives in serving others, and not just anybody. They serve complete strangers and often the rejected, lonely, sick, and the hated.

         3. The hope and peace that they offer others is greatly magnified because they have a unique connection with God, who is the Author of healing, joy and peace. Miracles through their intercession are possible and are more valuable than anything science can offer.